Monday, January 23, 2012

Knitting with Friends

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When I was in my early twenties I lived in New York. Brooklyn to be exact. I was the front desk girl at a fancy art gallery in midtown Manhattan and spent most of my nights hanging out with my roommates at Daddy's, the hipster dive bar in the middle our Italian immigrant neighborhood. And when I wasn't writing press releases at the gallery or flirting with boys at the bar, I was learning one of my most treasured skills: knit one, purl one.

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Yeah, I moved to one of the most exciting cities in the world at the age of 21 and came back to Los Angeles two years later with sweaters and hats and even a handknit bikini in my suitcase. The hilarity of this is not lost on me. But not unlike how I feel about cooking and eating, knitting is best when done with friends and for me it has always been a social activity. In fact, one of my best friends and I discovered knitting together. Melissa (who was also my roommate in Williamsburg) and I were walking along Bedford Avenue when we stumbled upon a pretty little shop called The Yarn Tree. We walked in and quickly fell in love with the colorful selection of lush yarns and the promise each skein held. We were on the road to the satisfaction that comes from making something beautiful and useful.

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Fast forward nearly a decade. I'm in LA and Melissa stayed in Brooklyn. Thankfully we see each other many times a year as family brings her west and work takes me east. During her last trip to LA, we stopped by a local yarn shop on the way to an afternoon at the Korean Spa, as I needed to pick up some more yarn for a project (the "neverending" cowl featured in the above pics). Within moments we were back in Brooklyn circa 2002, excitedly, almost frantically, browsing through pattern books, touching everything and plotting our next big knitting move. Ever since we knit our first stitch, Melissa and I have discussed knitting a throw. In fact, we started one around five years ago during one of my trips to New York, but it didn't quite work out so we shelved the project.

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While browsing through a new book put out by Purl, the chic knitting store in Soho, we stopped when we spotted the above left picture of the brightly-hued throw. We loved it and decided to buy the supplies and commit to weekly cross country skype sessions where we would knit together, check on our progress and catch up on life. We obviously never made it to the spa. We decided that it would be a better idea to go home, get comfortable on my couch, pour some chilled prosecco and launch right into our project.

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And since then Mel and I have both been knitting like crazy. And talking a lot. We talk about needle size, yarn types and knitting theories (i.e. "always have a small project going so you don't hit a wall with the big projects" - I like to apply this one to many different facets of life). We talk about everything else too. The throw is coming right along - we've knit around nine inches in length out of the total 50". This whole cross country knitting exercise is a reminder that knitting, just like cooking and eating and crafting and visiting the Korean spa, is really just an excuse to connect. Hopefully we'll get a warm and cozy blanket out of it too.

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30 comments:

kathy peck said...

Love this post. I love to mindlessly knit. It's like meditation for me. My best friend taught me to knit 30 years ago, when I was pregnant, and I've been knitting off and on since then. I have made a huge throw, and I love it. Like you, with all projects, I have a large thing and a smaller one going at the same time, for the same "hitting the wall" feeling.
I love going into yarns stores and feeling all the luscious yarns, imagining color combos, all of it.
Just reading your post gave me a "yarn high."

kathy peck said...

Oh, and I love your endless cowl. I've knit a few of those already, and they're so much fun to do. Great colors and stitches.

Melissa Levin said...

This knitting renaissance has been the coziest! Dying to make that cowl. It is so so beautiful.

Heather Taylor said...

@melissa levin: and i'm dying to make the man cowl! cowl swapppp. (sweater)

Meghan Pickrell said...

I love your cowl... so warm, great colors. I attempted knitting in NYC as well. I'd love to pick it up again and have a craft party. :)

jeana sohn said...

you guys are so cute!!! i really love your cowl too! nice post, poo!

Estelle said...

I love this post so much. It just brightened up my foggy Monday and made my heart happy. I have a bestie who now lives in New Zealand and we always connect through yard. Now I'm inspired to skype and knit together. Absolutely LOVE that throw.

By the way, I met Jess Chamberlain last week at Alt and we gushed about how inspiring you are and over the beauty of your home. =) Your ears may have been burning a bit.

Desi McKinnon said...

That's so fun. I want to relearn to knit this year. I crochet, but knitting used to frustrate my 8 year old self, so I haven't done it in awhile.

amelia said...

DUDE, we were tapping into some very similar, korean-spa-related themes! pretty COOL.

Sunday Taylor said...

This is very cozy. With the rain pouring down outside, I have a strong urge to take out my needlepoint project and get to work! Love this!

Vivier said...

you guys are too cute. love the screen shot. love the cowl. i'm wearing mine now. :)

Sasha said...

after reading this i am convinced that i have to finally teach myself to knit. you make it sound too fun!

Maria said...

This has got to be the coziest post ever. Just love it, all of it!

Yvonne said...

Love that cozy cowl!

e'clair said...

"The satisfaction that comes from making something beautiful and useful" - so beautiful, and even more beautiful for weaving in a friendship.
"The sweetest lives are those to duty wed,
Whose deeds, both great and small,
Are close knit strands of an unbroken thread,
Whose love ennobles all..."

--Robert Browning, Duty

joyce said...

Love this. I started having Skype craft dates with a friend recently. I don't know why I didn't think of it sooner!

Mary Anne said...

Awwwww, this is so cute. I LOVE this post and I LOVE that super excited feeling you described when seeing the yarn shop in LA. When you drop EVERYTHING because you just can't wait to get your hands in a new project!

One question though: who is going to keep the throw?!??? I'm very concerned about this.

Unknown said...

beautiful and inspiring post, as much for the friendship part as for the knitting.

Michelle said...

aww, super cute and sweet. Have you ever worn your knitted bikini??

Heather Taylor said...

@mary anne! allow me to alleviate your concerns. melissa and I are each making a throw. we will have matching ones. get it???

Heather Taylor said...

@michelle - only around the house! it's totally not beach appropriate. cute though....

kait said...

What a great idea! I have a former roommate/current friend from when I lived in NYC and we used to knit together as well. I'll have to suggest this idea to her :) Thanks for the post!

Beatrice Valenzuela said...

I want to knit with you too! I have a sweater I started in November!! It needs to get finished.

Heather Taylor said...

@Bea: let's knit together!! weaving, knitting, what's next? xo

lisa fika said...

coz heathie!! xo.

Nomadic D. said...

Love this, it is so sweet! Why have I never thought of having skype knitting dates with my faraway friends?! Brilliant.

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annie markantonatou said...

that little knitted house is gorgeous!

http://anmarkdesign.blogspot.com/

lori said...

I love your knit cowl!!! Do you have a pattern for it or did you just figure out your stitches as you went along? If you do have a pattern for it, can you tell me where to find it? It's fabulous!

melissanearandfar said...

This is the sweetest most wonderful thing I've heard for awhile. And, nice cowl indeed!

CassieMarie said...

Lovely. When I moved to rural south dakota last year (HUGE CHANGE!) I found my 'people' quickly through setting up a stitch & bitch in my small town. It is really great to have friends who knit - I love the idea of craft as a way to connect people. :)